Just an old soul with a young heart, My Theo prof says we shouldn't have premaritalsex because when you have sex in marriage, you're bringing all your sexual partners to bed. Why then is kissing before marriage allowable? And if one's spouse dies, can he/she have sex with his/her new spouse?

My Theo prof says we shouldn’t have premaritalsex because when you have sex in marriage, you’re bringing all your sexual partners to bed. Why then is kissing before marriage allowable? And if one’s spouse dies, can he/she have sex with his/her new spouse?

I have no idea. I’ve never been in a romantic relationship, so how would I know?
While I may have strong beliefs, I’m no expert in theology.

Let’s see if I’m bored enough to answer your question… or if it’s good enough to MAKE me answer it